Perfectionism is a big issue for Cindy. I call it the “Duck Syndrome." So, what is the Duck Syndrome? Visualize a duck gliding along the water. She looks very serene, calm, and pleasant. Then, look under the water and she is paddling frantically. Too many girls on the outside are appearing calm, cool, and collected while on the inside they are completely stressed out. Like Cindy, they continue to smile and never show weakness. They want to have it all – to be the great student and athlete, to b